Marriage proposals are exciting! Sometimes you will get so eager that you will find yourself already looking for the best wedding catering in the Philippines. But don’t get ahead of yourself just yet. You have to get your partner to say “Yes!” first!
When planning your proposal, you can go one of two ways: either privately or publicly. One is more intimate, while the other is more extravagant. You’ll have to decide based on what your partner would like in order to avoid either unnecessary pressure or a lackluster gesture.
To help you out, here are the pros and cons of private and public marriage proposals:
When you do a private proposal, it means that only you and your partner will be the only ones present. But this doesn’t necessarily mean that it has to be done at home. You can choose to do it in any secluded area. Choose one that is romantic for the both of you. You can go to your favorite beach, the park where you had your first kiss, or the place you first laid eyes on each other.
Whatever spot you choose, it must be where you can revisit the most romantic memories. Though in the end, it is important for you to have the words to say that will make your partner feel like he/she will be loved for the rest of his/her life.
If you and your partner don’t like being in the center of attention, then this type of marriage proposal could be the most ideal one for you. Sure, no one would be there to witness it. But this could mean that you are free to communicate whatever you need to express to your partner to let them know you are ready for the next part of your lives.
Aside from that, you will also have a lot more control. Since it’s just you and your partner, your setup can be simple. Not to mention, it will be easier to keep a secret when you don’t need to tell a big amount of people about your plan.
Regardless of the setup being simple, the execution still has to be perfect. In fact, there could be more pressure with a private proposal because it can seem to be less grand if you don’t do it right. Your wording, venue, and setup all need to be perfect to get your partner’s feelings through the roof.
Also, you could lack in the surprise factor, which could be what you need if your partner loves extravagant stuff and momentous occasions.
If you choose to go for this type of proposal, then it means you are going to have an audience of some sort. Whether it’s going down on one knee in the middle of a busy mall or hiring the help of a grand flash mob, the point of this proposal is that people will be watching and you are not afraid to scream to the world that you love your partner.
This type of proposal is usually the type you would see going viral on the internet because of how sweet and creative these could get. Planning an extravagant proposal such as this is truly a great way to show love that can’t be bound by words.
If you and your fiancé-to-be love theatrics, then your partner will definitely appreciate this. The wonders of an all-out production could speak more volumes of your feelings for your beloved than what you could possibly arrange with words.
You can also bring your partner’s closest friends and family involved. This is important as it could make him/her feel as if everyone is rooting for him/her to say “Yes,” which could be the reassurance that he/she needs to make the right choice.
This is definitely much harder to pull off because of the planning needed. Think of it as a trial by fire before the wedding planning; you need to go through this to prove that you can plan a wedding. With a public proposal, you have to get permits and abide by certain rules and regulations of whichever venue you plan to make your grand gesture in. Not to mention, the practice you will need to do in secret will be difficult to keep from your beloved.
Another big issue you may face with a public proposal is that you could be putting unnecessary pressure on your partner. You wouldn’t want him/her to say yes just for the sake of pleasing a crowd. If you’ve heard the horror stories of proposals being accepted publicly but being rejected privately, then you definitely don’t want the same thing to happen to you. Thus, you should only do this if you are sure that your partner will truthfully accept and appreciate it.
When planning a wedding proposal, the key is knowing your partner well. Does he/she love intimate and romantic moments or grand and theatrical displays? Use this article as a guideline about which one is perfect for your proposal and you will surely make your partner say “Yes!”
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